Why we should show our hurt rather than argue

Published At : 28 Sep 2017
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Watch Full Video Of Why we should show our hurt rather than argue.Our tendencies, when we’ve been slighted by our partner, is to wound them back immediately. We would have far calmer relationships and kinder ones too, if we could just reveal our hurt – rather than inflict it back. If you like our films, take a look at our shop (we ship worldwide): https://goo.gl/AvBKpw Join our mailing list: http://bit.ly/2e0TQNJ Or visit us in person at our London HQ https://goo.gl/PbHKn6 FURTHER READING “Arguments in relationships are typically so regrettable and often so bitter, it’s natural to hope we might – with greater maturity –
overcome them once and for all. But given what human nature is like, it would be unwise to make this our goal: the hope can’t be to eliminate arguments altogether, it should be to try to find our way to a better kind of argument. Arguments tend to start when we are confronted – usually rather suddenly – by what appears to us to be the radical selfishness, intransigence or sheer nastiness of the partner…” You can read more on this and other subjects on our blog, here: https://goo.gl/XQ2C1b MORE SCHOOL OF LIFE Our website has classes, articles and products to
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